Did you think that you were in a relationship with a man, but deep down it felt confusing?
Like, he just didn’t act as if there was a real commitment?
And, this left you doing all of the work – making plans, creating the connection and driving things forward.
And then, the WORST thing imaginable happened – you found out that he was seeing other women, and then – this is usually the point where true heartbreak happens – HE CHOSE SOMEONE ELSE!?
Even though he told you “I’m just not ready for anything serious!
This happened to me years ago – I fell in love, and he basically used me for all the usual girlfriend benefits – hanging out, sex, trips away, cooking together, dinners out, company, emotional support..
But whenever I asked him about where it was going, what he wanted or the commitment level he just said he wasn’t ready..
He brushed me off this way for a good couple of years and I allowed it..
And then, he met someone else and guess what? Not only did he end it with me, but he went on and MARRIED HER!
WOW! I was MAD! It hurt so much not to be chosen..
I could not figure it out – she wasn’t even pretty, or clever, or successful – in fact she was in so any ways inferior to me..
BUT she had ONE thing that I was lacking..
SHE KNEW HOW TO CHOOSE HERSELF FIRST
As you start to like a man, do you find that insecurity, fear and paranoia creeps in – and then of course men reject you, because you expect it!
If so then you are sabotaging your relationships, your dating and your love life!
To find out if this is you and what to do about it – book a call with me and my team – it’s free!
THIS CAN BE FIXED SO EASILY!
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Kate
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