All the women (and men) who come to me have this same problem. Their relationships start with fireworks, chemistry, and excitement – only to fizzle out quickly, whether after a few weeks/months or even in a long-term marriage that ends in divorce.
The pattern is always the same. Things begin wonderfully, but as the real you and the real them start to emerge, the romance, love, and joy decline. Resentments creep in. Or, things are going great and then suddenly, they go ghost.
Why does this keep happening?
There are a few key reasons:
- Most people select partners based solely on chemistry, rather than ensuring lasting compatibility. The “fireworks” blind them to deeper incompatibilities.
- Most people have no idea how to have the hard conversations upfront to really discern if the other person is capable of a real relationship. They ignore red flags.
I teach my clients a different approach. It’s about dating with discernment – and doing the inner work to truly become love on the inside, not just in theory. I show them how to grow their self-esteem through action, not just talk.
I also teach healthy communication skills – the kind that inspire your partner to want to meet your needs, rather than triggering defensiveness through blaming and nagging.
You can read every book, and watch every YouTube video on “getting the guy/girl.” But unless you’re dating with discernment and communicating effectively, you’ll never break these patterns. You’ll keep living in failure and frustration.
If you’re ready to invest in developing yourself so you can navigate dating and relationships in a whole new way, book a free consultation with me. I’ve already helped 1,567 women create the love lives they deserve. You can see their case studies here.
It’s time to become the love you seek. Let’s get started.
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