BlogNever Had A REAL Relationship? Find Out Why!

October 8, 2020by Kate
If you have never actually had a real relationship, and deep down you feel terrified that there is something wrong with you – then this is for you!

 

By real relationship, I am talking about a fully committed, long term (1 year or more) emotionally AND physically intimate partnership – where you live together and operate as a team, sharing a life together – bills, holidays, family and friendship circle – the lot!

 

If you have never had this and you are above the age of 25 then I’m sorry to tell you but there is something wrong

There is not something wrong with YOU, (even though deep down you probably secretly fear that there is!) but something just ISN’T WORKING!

And the bad news is  – it will never CHANGE UNLESS YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT

It’s tempting to live in FANTASY

FANTASY that somehow magically your man will just appear one day, and it will all be ok..

 

Sadly, it doesn’t work like this – in fact, the longer this goes on the less likely it is to ever change

 

The reason is that the human brain gets wired into patterns, and looks for evidence to create a story that is logical and convincing

And so, every month, and then the year that rolls by without finding love, you become less and less convinced that it is possible for you – and then you start to behave in ways that support this negative story

And, the desperation and loneliness deep inside drive terrible decisions and choices in your love life – which create the same outcome again and again

To the point where, you can’t even get men that you know are not on your level to commit to a date, never mind getting your dream guy to want a long term relationship!

You move further and further away from your vision and the possibility of a REAL RELATIONSHIP

 

Want to know how to REVERSE THIS PATTERN?

We get our clients WIRED FOR LOVE with a proven system, it’s really simple – find out how by booking a free call with us:

http://localhost/katemansfield/schedule-a-call/

 

Speak soon,

Kate Xx

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